As the queen of procrastination and lazy town, I am here to give you the secret and guide to overcoming that lazy habit and really start taking action. I have searched my entire life for a way to really get me motivated and start working towards my passions and goals. This mnemonic device has given me a fresh perspective and changed my way of thinking, from being lazy to motivated and accomplished.

P-A-R-T-I

PARTI stands for Plan, Act, Rewards, Thrive, Imagine


I am selfish

I am needy

I am sensitive

I am insecure about my nose and my pimply face

I am emotional because i don’t know how to control my emotions

I am sad when things do not go my way

I am angry when someone tells me what to do or how to do things

I take out my emotions on people that I love and care about and I do not feel good about it

I am depressed

I am moody

I want attention on me all the time

I crave love and intimacy and I expect everything…


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For all my young 20s, I have had sex and been pleasured by men from all over the world. I experienced all sorts of different dicks and learned more about myself through these experiences and I am happily here to share my thoughts and stories.

Here are the 10 lessons I learned from my years of hoe-ing around.


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I have suffered from depression and anxiety for the past 11 years and have tried many methods to improve my mental health including microdosing shrooms, therapy, and journaling. They all helped me improve in some kind of way, but it wasn’t until I met this wonderful woman by the name of Andrea who introduced me to breathwork and it changed my world.

“Your outer world is a reflection of your inner world. If you change your thinking, you change your life”- Priayash Tiwari

What is Breathwork?

Breathwork can be describe as a series of exercises of controlled breathing techniques that brings awareness to…


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I had always been a hopeless romantic. Ever since I was a little girl I dreamed of Prince Charming coming in and rescuing me from my isolated castle. I’m always searching for ways to find love and give love because I have such a big heart and I really love the idea of being “in love”. It’s every girl’s dream to meet the love of her life and grow old with “the one”. I unfortunately have not found my happy ending yet and every relationship I had been in, it never seems to last long, or I always end up…


“I am happy”.

Saying this affirmation may not seem like it’s working immediately, however your subconscious mind is taking it in every time you say it. Your subconscious mind plays a huge role in your actions. Just like how you know how to brush your teeth, put on clothes, get ready for work, that’s your subconscious mind doing all that. When it comes to attracting the things that you want or being in the state of mind that you desire, it’s important to understand how your subconscious mind works and how to utilize the tools and resources to work that subconscious mind out…


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Dear Universe,

It’s September 22 and I thought it be great to start a gratitude series. Ever since I started writing in all my journals about manifesting, things have really turned out amazing for me and I can see life so beautifully now. I know these positive and uplifting blessings serve a purpose in this world and I really want to do my best to be a ray of sunshine for people. Each day I do my best to name as many things I’m grateful for of that day and reflect on how my day went especially if it was…


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May 2019, I swiped right on yet another pretty boy who I thought was going to be a one-night stand. We met at a bar with some of my friends and hit it off really well. First time I saw him, I immediately was attracted to his crystal blue eyes and bright smile. My friends thought he was super cool and chill and approved of him so I knew we were going to hit off with a bang. That first night we must have fucked at least 7–8 times, in the shower, in the bed, in the corner of the…


Anne and I parasailing in Pantai Cenang Beach

Langkawi is an island in Malaysia where its tax-duty free, filled with beautiful beaches and fun activities to do, and where the locals welcome you in with open arms. When I first arrived to Langkawi, I checked in at this hostel called the Bunk Inn Shaka. It was a small hostel that had a unique and homey atmosphere. Upon arrival, I met a sweet German girl, Anne, and she invited me to hang with her on her last day. We bonded really well as she showed me around town and talked about our traveling adventures. Then we headed towards the…


“That Angry Bitch” — Lead Role

As a young, fun size, Asian female, I have been told “no” or been criticized for my actions because of my size and gender. I remember when I went solo backpacking, people would be worried for me because they were scared I get raped or kidnap and that I shouldn’t go for my safety. Luckily that didn’t stop me from doing what I wanted to do and I went on that trip and had the most amazing, life changing experience that helped me grow as a person.

Jennifer Le

Intuitive Life and Mindset Coach. I help people discover their greatest potential. ☺️

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